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You ever have those days where everything feels kind of… meh? You’re not necessarily sad, but also not exactly thriving? Sometimes the best thing you can do is slow down and reconnect with yourself through simple beauty rituals that remind you that you matter. These aren’t about looking perfect — they’re about feeling good in your own skin.
Here are a few underrated rituals that can help you feel more grounded, relaxed, and honestly just better about life.
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1. Do a Slow Skincare Routine (Even if It’s Basic)
Instead of rushing through your usual cleanse-tone-moisturize routine, try slowing down. I get it. Sometimes you just don’t feel like going through the same long skincare routine that you do every night. And while you should be consistent with your skincare routine, the most crucial steps are still basic cleansing and moisturizing. Massage your cleanser in slowly. Let your moisturizer really soak in. Put on a lip mask while you journal. Light a candle and treat it like a little ceremony. Even if it’s just five minutes, that intention makes it feel luxurious.
2. Hair Oiling & Scalp Massage
This one’s not just for your grandma. Massaging warm oil into your scalp is soothing AF and actually super good for your hair. Use coconut oil or a blend like rosemary and castor oil if you want that hair growth boost. Let it sit while you chill in your robe and listen to music.
I set aside one day of the week to do my haircare. For me, it is Sunday. I mix castor oil and rosemary oil together and use the oil on my hair — doing this consistently every week also boosts hair growth! The Mielle Rosemary Mint Scalp & Hair Strengthening Oil is very popular on platforms such as TikTok. You can check it out!
Bonus tip:
- Braid your hair after washing it out and sleep on a silk pillowcase for extra softness.
- I personally advise washing your hair with shampoo more than once on those days, so that your hair doesn’t remain greasy from the oil even after showering.
3. Exfoliate, but Make it a Moment
Body scrubs aren’t just for vacations. Use a sugar or salt scrub in the shower once or twice a week to feel smooth and refreshed. Bonus points if you follow up with body oil and a fluffy robe.
4. Gua Sha or Face Massage
Gua Sha Isn’t Just Hype — It Actually Works
This one isn’t just a TikTok trend — gua sha is genuinely relaxing and helps reduce puffiness when used consistently. Even if you don’t have a gua sha tool, just using your fingers for a gentle face massage while applying serum can feel amazing. But if you do have a gua sha, using it on your jawline can seriously help with lifting and defining your face over time.
I’ve tried it myself, and I totally noticed a difference — the key is staying consistent. One thing that’s super important though: never use gua sha on dry skin. Always apply a face oil or some kind of hydrating serum first so the tool glides smoothly and doesn’t tug or mess with your skin barrier.
Also, not all gua shas are created equal. It’s worth investing in one that’s made of quality material that’s safe for your skin — not just the cheapest one you find online. Personally, I believe investing in a gua sha like the Rena Chris Stainless Steel Gua Sha is worth considering — it feels luxe, stays cool, and it’s way more durable than the usual jade or rose quartz ones.
5. Light a Candle While You Do Nothing
Seriously. Just slow down for a sec. Light a candle, sit down, and don’t multitask. Sip your tea slowly. Stare out the window for a bit. Read a book without checking your phone every five minutes. Binge-watch a comfort show or put on a movie you’ve been meaning to see. Let yourself unwind — no pressure, no productivity goals.
We forget how peaceful it is to simply be. To exist in the moment. To enjoy the quiet and create that soft, cozy aesthetic we always save on Pinterest — but actually live it instead of just pinning it.
6. Paint Your Nails Just Because
It doesn’t need to be perfect or last a week. Just sitting down to paint your nails — even if it’s just clear polish — feels like a simple reset. It’s giving: “I’m taking care of myself today.” I personally love using dark red nail polish; it looks super elegant and simple.
7. Get Ready for No Reason
Are you aware of the pre-shower makeup trend? It’s the trend where people put on makeup that they wouldn’t usually put on when they go out. Do your hair. Put on mascara. Wear perfume, even if you’re not going anywhere. This one’s not about impressing anyone — it’s about reminding yourself how good it feels to take care of you.
Sometimes, putting effort into your appearance can help shift your mood more than any productivity hack. So yes, wear the dress, even if you’re staying home.
The Takeaway
Beauty isn’t about trends or looking a certain way. It’s about you — what makes you feel calm, grounded, and in tune with yourself. These little rituals aren’t about vanity. They’re about connection. You deserve that softness, even (and especially) on your off days.
If you liked this, check out my other posts on self-care, skincare, and beauty rituals that make life feel a little bit better.
